ugh.. again..

Doog said:
I'll clarify, the opposite of one strong feeling is not
another strong feeling. It's the lack of feeling at all.

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+1 Doog.
We're all on the same page.

We're not commenting about love and hate being
opposites. We are commenting on them being
related, cuz they both share a quality, the quality
you had pointed out, of being the opposite of
indifference. We're remarking about what it can
mean for two things to both be the opposite of
some third thing, and therefore found NOT to be
opposite of EACH OTHER.​

 
Sounds good mate. That's when you're over an ex. When you don't care what he or she does. Or if you can be happy for them getting on with things.
 
Ok, the way I see it, all these troubles boil down to the fact that at some point in almost every boy’s development, generally teenage years, they begin to ignore one of the most basic rules that are pre-programmed in to every boy. Girls are icky... Remember how happy we were back in kindergarten where well all thought that girls were gross and had coodies. We boys hung together and had our own clubs with no girls allowed. We would run around our neighborhoods exploring new territories and playing King of the Hill. Oh what blissful happy days those were...

Oh, but then something awful happens. The most horrible disease known to mankind hits us; puberty. Our bodies start to change and now blood that was previously sent to nourish our brains is now diverted to other parts of our bodies causing our brains to suffer from lack of nourishment. A form of brain damage sets in and our self preservation Girls are Icky programming is overwritten by something far more primitive and sinister. Like many of our most basic fears; fear of the dark, fear of being burned, fear of dangerous animals; we lose our fear of coodies. Once our fear of coodies is gone, we are hopelessly lost.

To make matters even worse, that while our bodies are being racked by this dreadful disease, girl’s bodies are undergoing a strange transformation as well. We all know about and can see the most obvious physical changes. The same basic urge that drove us to explore our neighborhoods as younger boys, now drive us to want to explore these strange new hills and valleys that the girls around us now seem to process. We still want to play King of the Hills, but there are a whole new set of hills we want to play with and be king of. In addition, girl’s bodies also start to transmit a signal that affects a boy’s brain almost like a computer virus. This virus attacks a boy’s brain and corrupts what little instincts we have left for self preservation and leaves us hopelessly under the girl’s power.

To further complicate the situation, at this age, we inherently have the mentality that we know everything and thus refuse to listen to the advice and warnings of those that know and have lived through these things, so we are all destined to go through this horrible time when girls seem to have all the power over us. During this time, it is important to remember that we are not in control of the things we do but rather simple puppets at the mercy of the girls.

Good and Bad News…. As boys get older, we begin to gain strength and regain some of the control of our brains. The bad news is that girls also gain strength and for most of us, will always have the power to control our bodies. Most alarming is the fact that girls that are extremely gifted in manipulating our bodies will almost always be able to control our brains as well. The only advice I can give is always try and remember, Girls are Icky. No matter what you or any guy may do, remember, it’s probably because of a girl. So be forgiving of your fell men, they are going through the same girly troubles as you.

Now Jesse, I realize this long BS story really wasn’t much help with what you are going through, but if it at least made you smile for a second, then it served its intended purpose. A lot of great advice has already been given in this thread and there isn’t much I can add, except to reiterate, at sometime we have all been through it, so you’re not alone in this. And that were here for you Bro, so feel free to vent away.
 
BassPlyr Randy said:

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Now Jesse, I realize this long BS story
really wasn’t much help .........
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OK. I read it 5 times, and I'm still
looking for even one gram of BS ...
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wow Randy, that story really did serve its purpose, thanks a lot man, it made me feel better about forgiving my first best friend.

This chicks a succubus, thats all it boils down to haha

thanks again randy and everyone who replied, i really do appreciate it
 
No Problem Jesse, that's what Bro's are for. I've never met or even seen this girl, so she holds no power over me and is just another icky girl, so I can tell it straight.

But I have to tell ya, if you ever have problems with Patrik's singer, Mille, you will be on your own. Because, although I have never met her, I have seen her pic's and heard her voice and I have to admit, I have been enchanted and she holds the power over me. I guess it's lucky for me that she's not into ugly fat Americans, or I would be a goner for sure.
 
JHbass said:
quite the opposite, if i never saw
her again i wouldnt shed a tear
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Dahhh - - ooo - - ewd ! !

Fess up. We can all read. It's a "read it and weep".

Your choice of language tips your hand. See, an "IF"
scenario isn't real, and removing the "IF" always spells
out the present reality ......


The condition you need to arrive at is:

"If I never saw her again ... uh, her who ? say what ?"

- - - - -

See ..... an "IF" is future projection and it also defines
the present [cuz "IF" aint yet happenin], so the above
recommended version, in the present, means:

"Sometimes I do encounter wazzername ... "

- - - - -

Now, lookit your version:

"if i never saw her again i wouldnt shed a tear".

The implied present reality of that 'iffy' future
projection translates to:

"Sometimes I encounter her and it causes my tears."


IOW, "if i never saw her again i wouldnt shed a tear"
is simply an inverted statement of cause and effect.
It simply says "just remove the cause, and the effect
will cease" ... "No longer see her .... no longer cry",
.... altho I must admit Bob Marley phrased it better !



 
golem said:


Dahhh - - ooo - - ewd ! !

Fess up. We can all read. It's a "read it and weep".

Your choice of language tips your hand. See, an "IF"
scenario isn't real, and removing the "IF" always spells
out the present reality ......


The condition you need to arrive at is:

"If I never saw her again ... uh, her who ? say what ?"

- - - - -

See ..... an "IF" is future projection and it also defines
the present [cuz "IF" aint yet happenin], so the above
recommended version, in the present, means:

"Sometimes I do encounter wazzername ... "

- - - - -

Now, lookit your version:

"if i never saw her again i wouldnt shed a tear".

The implied present reality of that 'iffy' future
projection translates to:

"Sometimes I encounter her and it causes my tears."


IOW, "if i never saw her again i wouldnt shed a tear"
is simply an inverted statement of cause and effect.
It simply says "just remove the cause, and the effect
will cease" ... "No longer see her .... no longer cry",
.... altho I must admit Bob Marley phrased it better !
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good points golem, but really what im trying to get across is that I am done with her and i do not want her back, she just wont leave! haha thats what i trying to get across im not Enamored with her, my feelings toward her are none that could be misconstrued as love
 
golem said:


Dahhh - - ooo - - ewd ! !

Fess up. We can all read. It's a "read it and weep".

Your choice of language tips your hand. See, an "IF"
scenario isn't real, and removing the "IF" always spells
out the present reality ......


The condition you need to arrive at is:

"If I never saw her again ... uh, her who ? say what ?"

- - - - -

See ..... an "IF" is future projection and it also defines
the present [cuz "IF" aint yet happenin], so the above
recommended version, in the present, means:

"Sometimes I do encounter wazzername ... "

- - - - -

Now, lookit your version:

"if i never saw her again i wouldnt shed a tear".

The implied present reality of that 'iffy' future
projection translates to:

"Sometimes I encounter her and it causes my tears."


IOW, "if i never saw her again i wouldnt shed a tear"
is simply an inverted statement of cause and effect.
It simply says "just remove the cause, and the effect
will cease" ... "No longer see her .... no longer cry",
.... altho I must admit Bob Marley phrased it better !
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ummmm, I'd say your busted bro, cuz we all know you can't get anything past the Philosopher King.

Face it Bro, she's got you in her voodoo spell and that's why your Bros seeing her bothers you so much. You probably would really like to get over her, but that fact is, you haven't... She still has you by the short hairs and it sounds like she gets a kick out of yanking on them.

You know, there is one option to free yourself of her power that you probably hadn't considered yet ......




Want to know it?







Are You Sure.......?






You may not like it..........










Ok then, You asked for it........













Turn Homosexual. That will solve all your woman problems.

Or not... shhheeesh, it was just a suggestion.
 
BassPlyr Randy said:
ummmm, I'd say your busted bro, cuz we all know you can't get anything past the Philosopher King.

Face it Bro, she's got you in her voodoo spell and that's why your Bros seeing her bothers you so much. You probably would really like to get over her, but that fact is, you haven't... She still has you by the short hairs and it sounds like she gets a kick out of yanking on them.

You know, there is one option to free yourself of her power that you probably hadn't considered yet ......




Want to know it?







Are You Sure.......?






You may not like it..........










Ok then, You asked for it........













Turn Homosexual. That will solve all your woman problems.

Or not... shhheeesh, it was just a suggestion.
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honestly if i had the option to go back and be with her, no strings attatched i wouldnt, like ive said before, its not so much that hes hanging out with her anymore, its that he didnt care about how i felt after i had been helping him with his break up over the past 3 months.

Tylers (Ryans) initial response to my first thread was exactly what i was looking for, he focused on the fact my friend didnt care. That was the source of my anguish, shes just an annoying plus.

Honestly guys I DO NOT feel about her how you may think, if you knew me personally youd understand that.

Alittle more background info:

She has many MANY issues, for one, her father died of alchoholism and other drug addictions. She was beaten as a child. She had a previous 2 year long relationship before ours.

I tried to help her as best i could be she loves to inflict pain on others to make her feel better.

She took all this built up crap out on me. Do I want that back? F*ck NO!
 
Jesse... Bro... I'm just f'ing with you. I understand where your at, really, I'm just playin with ya to help ya lighten up about it, but I seem to have push the wrong buttons. Let try and hit the reset button and try this again.....

Hmmmm I find it very interesting that you didn't come out and reject that turning homo suggestion. Is there another kind of coming out we should expect from you in the future?
 
I wish that I had Jesse's girl,
da naa na na naa naa naa na.
I'm surprised nobodies said that yet.
btw,can someone tell me what "friznits" means?
Golem says it sometimes & it'd make it alot easier for me to be able to understand what he's sayin.
 
Greg said:
I wish that I had Jesse's girl,
da naa na na naa naa naa na.
I'm surprised nobodies said that yet.
btw,can someone tell me what "friznits" means?
Golem says it sometimes & it'd make it alot easier for me to be able to understand what he's sayin.
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Where can I find a women (un)like that!?

I have no idea... Some of the things I have to read a few times before it clicks.

Makes the posts just that much more enjoyable for me though, lol.
 
TylerDurdenPSSC said:
Where can I find a women (un)like that!?

I have no idea... Some of the things I have to read a few times before it clicks.

Makes the posts just that much more enjoyable for me though, lol.
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Thanks to Michael J I now know that it means,"lies".
Thanks Michael.;)
 
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