R.I.P. Dad- Sam F. Jenkins 1912-2009

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My Father:

Sam F. Jenkins

January 4, 1912- November 8, 2009

Passed away last Sunday at age 97.

During his last two years, I had him at home with me, taking care of him best I could.

The last few months were the hardest, as they were his final decline.
He lived a long and productive and good life.

Posting on this Forum and sharing my happiness of playing Bass Guitar with things Warwick, as related here, has been very helpful during those trying times.

Thanks for the Forum, all involved.


RIP, Dad.

I love you and will miss you.

Larry Neal Jenkins
Encino CA
 
My deepest condolences Larry.
I too,know the pain of losing a father after nursing him through a long illness.For me,we at least had the chance to become very close,after being distant all my life.Then losing him after realising we'd waisted 37 odd years avoiding each other when we could've been friends was really frustrating.But I'm gratefull we at least had that short time together.
The next few months are going to be hard mate.Try to remember that grief is something we all react to differently,& that some take a little longer,or cry more,than others.Take your time with it,& please,try to keep in touch with all of us here.
If you wanna talk & have MSN messenger,ad me.
[email protected]
Take care mate,hang in there,& dont forget there's people that care about your wellbeing.
 
Thank you Greg.
Similar circumtances, Dad and I NEVER got along!!

But we knew and loved each other nonetheless.
Amazing, parents. I was lucky to have had (2) great ones, and I hope
Sam and Pearl are somehow together now.

I appreciate your sentiments much.

LNJ
 
Sorry to hear of your loss, Larry. My thoughts are with you, my friend...
 
Sorry for your loss man. It's good that you were willing and able to care for him until the end and I'm sure he appreciated it. Hang in there.
 
Always wish I could have done more; and I'd trade a whole lot of stuff for one more day with him.
He had a good long run, and hung in there.
Today is Veteran's Day; among other things he was a War hero; WWII vet with (4) Purple Hearts, many Battle Ribbons and the Bronze Star.

I would ask him about what it was like-D-Day, and battles, etc.
He told me:

"I always believed that a Man' purpose was to create; not to destroy."
Wow, Dad....


Thank you for your sentiment.

LNJ
 
I'm so sorry for your terrible loss. It's never easy when you loose someone you love. At 97 years old he must have seen some pretty amazing things and being a WWII vet with so many prestigious awards he probably saw a lot of thing most of us wouldn't even want to imagine. "I always believed that a Man' purpose was to create; not to destroy." What a beautiful statement. If we had more people that thought this way our planet wouldn't be in the disaster zone it is today.
 
Oh man... I am sad to hear that...
I want to thank you for considering us friends enough to share this with us. If you feel like chatting, I use skype - florin_xbass and yahoo messenger - bss_x
97 years... woow! and in good health until 95? That's a good life right?
I still have both of my parents alive, but your message tells me that you are never ready to let them go...
Be happy for him, as you have enough reasons.
 
im so sorry to hear this. hang in there.
my prayers are with you and your family
 
Looks like he lived a long time in great health, can't ask for more.
You have my deepest condolences
 
My heartfelt thanks for your words and sympathy.

My house is quiet and empty now without Dad, and resuming work and music will ease the loneliness-
As does the Forum.
Even though there is undoubtedly a wide variety of musical tastes, style, and opinions and viewpoints in general here...

We're all musicians, BASSISTS too (Don't recall seeing a Warwick guitar!;)
so by posting, venting and clowning around-
with an occasional outburst or two...:twisted:
We have common ground, with each other from all over the World.
Pretty cool really, and there's much from Warwick that makes us happy.

One thing- blessings I know I'll receive from Dad will be him keeping me in-the-pocket when I play.
He wasn't dialed into my "tastes" with music so much, but the rhythm of his Life will be a great meter for me to follow.

Everybody- call, hug, and love your Parents. Our time is short and precious.
If I could only have one more day...
And I will, many, through his memory.

Thank you all so much again.


LNJ
 
Thanks James.
The only bad stuff is that he's not around, but passing is unfortunately a part of life too.

Appreciate your good words.

LNJ
 
My dad was a WW2 vet as well,he fought as an artilleryman in Papua New Guinea,against the Japanese.Not quite as decorated as your dad though Larry.
The man(your father)certainly pulled more than his weight,his medals are a testament to that.
These guys basically sacrificed themselves for us.Even the survivors,coz none of them were ever the same after the war ended.They carry it with them always,often never speaking of the horrors they had to endure.
 
My condolences Larry. Similarly I don't have a close relationship with my father, perhaps I ought to reconsider...

 
My condolences.. Sorry to hear that. Just hang in there man, we're all with you.
 
Again thanks. While they're with us, it's sometimes easy to forget what it means to be a Parent- how they give up a large part of their time and lives for our benefit. One of the saving graces of the Human Race, I think.

As for Dad's service- The experiences he shared with me ranged from hilarious-(his squad "camping out" one night in a Winery in France; "taking advantage" of the inventory of superb French wine, then getting so smashed they thought they were ready to take on the entire World!)- to obviously the more horrific- D-Day, and the sad fact that over 90% of his fellow soldiers were killed in action. He himself was in a Hospital in England for over 4 months-blinded, but fortunately his sight returned... He lost part of one finger, and had shrapnel in his butt til it was removed years later, in the '60's!!
That generation..!

IF I may- I wrote a brief tribute that I hope to see published in a Journal called the "RED DIAMOND" his Army Infantry Division Journal. He used to read it and comment about the places he'd been- Normandy, Metz, etc.
I'd like to share it here, if you'll allow:

FOR MY FATHER:

SAM F. JENKINS
January 4, 1912- November 8, 2009​


From his Honorable Discharge, Dated 27 October 1945:

Corporal, Infantry, AUS.
2nd Infantry 5th Division

MOS Heavy Mortar Crewman 1607 Military Qualification COMBAT INFANTRYMAN

Battles and Campaigns
Normandy Northern France Rhineland Ardennes Campaign

Purple Heart with (3) Oak Leaf Clusters, African Middle Eastern Ribbon with three Bronze Service Stars, Good Conduct Medal, American Defense Service Ribbon, American Theatre Ribbon, Combat Infantry Badge, 4 Bronze Stars ETO
Wounds received in action 11 Oct 44, 12 Oct 44, France 24 November 44 France Dec 44 Germany

My Beloved Father, Sam F. Jenkins, passed last Sunday, November 8, 2009- of causes that come with age. He was 97 years old.

His Service- before, during and after WWII- of course were an integral element of his life. The RED DIAMOND DIVISION, with which he served with ETO in combat,
of course had the most impact in his years at arms.
He was able to and chose to share with me, his son- Many facts, stories, and details of his time in Service.

I am not a Veteran, and never chose to, or had to serve in the Armed Forces.
Part of this is due to the valiant efforts of those of my Dad’s generation who did serve.
They (YOU)- the Veterans- have left us and given us a World and a Country of FREEDOM- in many cases paying for this with your lives- Mnay in Dad’s unit were KIA.

I cannot prosletyze or preach to the choir- You who have served know more than I ever can or ever will. The information my father shared with me was special, intimate, detailed, historic and heroic.

I could not have endured those circumstance or conditions to which the Combat Forces dealt with as routine. From Basic Trainings, to Invasion, to Battle, and to Wounds received in action- Unimaginable to those who have not been.

You who read this have My heartfelt appreciation for what you have given.
My Father was and is a Hero- by virtue of his servie and his decorations.
He also is a Hero by virtue of having been an incredible, loving, giving, caring and devoted Husband and Father, to his Late Wife, and my Mother, Pearl, and to myself and my Sister, Debby.

To his Dear Friend who helped me in the last years, Joe Rahie- God Bless.
To all those who served, to those that read this in the RED DIAMOND JOURNAL-
Thank You for your brief time and hopefully good thought.

My Father cherished receiving the RED DIAMOND, and I myself read every issue after he was through, it reinforced and reminded me of Him and others, and was and still is an important journal of American History and virtue and values.

DAD- REST IN PEACE.

I LOVE YOU AND WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU.
Thank you for being the Man you are.

To those involved, my deepest thanks for allowing me this expression.

God Bless,

Lawrence Neal Jenkins
Los Angeles, CA


Once more thank you for your kind sentiments. Reading them gives me a lot of comfort, and makes me feel just a little bit less alone.

That's a BIG help.

LNJ
 
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