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Casey

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Me and the wife have been fighting like CRAZY for the past few months and now it has got to the point where she want's me out... Sadly I have a big ticket to pay off and am only up to around $300 it's around $700... Looks like I'll be selling all my gear except the bass and be out on the streets.

I hate that it has come to this... But if something doesnt change soon looks like it will be happening... So if you see a guy walking down the road with a sign on his bass gig bag saying "Will GIG for FOOD!"... gimme a gig!
 
Sorry to hear this :(

Good luck with everything, I'm sure it will all work out for the best in the long run.
 
Man, you`ve been mentioning issues here before. I`m sad to see that it came to this, and although thins might seem über-crap the next months or so, things will eventually fall into place and you`ll have one less thing to worry about. Stay focused on what you want, your bass, your friends and hobbies, take contact with people you haven`t seen in a while, let people know if you need some extra attention. I`m sorry to hear that you have to sell much of your gear, but this can be re-aquired with time. Get yourself a small amp to keep you going. Good luck, mate.
 
Look on the bright side now, you are going in the right direction. Staying with someone you always fight is not the best thing you can do. You'll be alright, don't worry :-)
And we are always here for you. Take care!!!
 
:( thumbin im really sorry to hear this. you know that the forums here if you ever need a bit of a moan. i hope everything works out
 
yeah mate, you've got my support too man... i know what it's like when a relationship breaks down and it sucks... i lost my relationship of 2 years when i moved to New York.

in the end mate, everything works out for the best. you've got your Warwick bass bretheren behind you!
 
Mate ... read about your fights with your wife before.

Stay clear in your mind and ask yourself if the topics you're fighting around are worth the fights.

I find some of my fights with the lady pretty redicolous after 1 days of silence. The problem with us is that we're damn stubborn both of us. That leads to fights, just for the sake of it... NOT WORTH IT.

Learn to forgive ... both of you!

Good luck Thumbin!!!
 
Once again... Like the other fights it was over stupid little stuff and we made up again... But lastnight it was to the point where she wanted me out and if I didnt have this ticket to pay off I would of been.

I couldn't possibly kick her out of the house... She's disabled and has a heart condition so I couldn't possibly do that to her, I would much rather leave...

This is a love/hate marriage :P It would be nice if things would get back to how they were when we were dating... It's weird... From the moment I said "I do" everything went to hell.
 
Sorry to hear about all this Casey,but ya know what mate?Life goes on & you'll be feeling better soon.You might find that you get closer after you separate,it does happen.If not,ya gave it your best shot mate.
 
thumbin said:
Once again... Like the other fights it was over stupid little stuff and we made up again... But lastnight it was to the point where she wanted me out and if I didnt have this ticket to pay off I would of been.

I couldn't possibly kick her out of the house... She's disabled and has a heart condition so I couldn't possibly do that to her, I would much rather leave...

This is a love/hate marriage :P It would be nice if things would get back to how they were when we were dating... It's weird... From the moment I said "I do" everything went to hell.
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you know what man? sometimes you have to put aside what the other person is going through, what conditions they have (I remember you mentioning your wife before) and just protect yourself. You have posted here before about problems, and from what we get from you, it seems that you are being toyed with (I am interested to hear her side, though). If it is as true as you have painted it, then you need to put all care for a condition or person anside and take action.

We all have your back man, no one deserves this, especially someone like you.
 
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