Apologies To All

kimgee

Wenge Taste Tester
Joined
May 23, 2016
Messages
949
Reaction score
1,141
(This seemed like the best place to put this post, but feel free to move it.)

To all members:

I would like to offer my sincerest apology to anyone who may have been offended by my comment regarding a video by Sasha yesterday. My feeble attempt at humor was poorly executed and, as a result, largely misinterpreted and deemed offensive by some members. The resulting mess was entirely my fault. I sometimes forget that many of us come from significantly differing cultures, with different languages, customs, and standards. What may be considered good-natured ribbing in one part of the world, could be considered highly offensive in another. My inference that Sasha was from another planet was motivated by the strange text-like characters that frequently appear in his videos. They look a little like the Thai alphabet, but I am fairly sure they are not from any language, that I know of anyway. Regardless, I should have known better. And when DiMarco called me out on my insensitive remark, I responded inappropriately. DiMarco had every right to react as he did, and I have no hard feelings toward him for doing so. He was simply performing his job as an administrator of this forum.

So again, my apologies to all, and especially, to Sasha and DiMarco. I hope we can all just put this unfortunate episode behind us and get back to enjoying "The Good Vibe Zone".

Sincerely,
Kimgee
 
(This seemed like the best place to put this post, but feel free to move it.)

To all members:

I would like to offer my sincerest apology to anyone who may have been offended by my comment regarding a video by Sasha yesterday. My feeble attempt at humor was poorly executed and, as a result, largely misinterpreted and deemed offensive by some members. The resulting mess was entirely my fault. I sometimes forget that many of us come from significantly differing cultures, with different languages, customs, and standards. What may be considered good-natured ribbing in one part of the world, could be considered highly offensive in another. My inference that Sasha was from another planet was motivated by the strange text-like characters that frequently appear in his videos. They look a little like the Thai alphabet, but I am fairly sure they are not from any language, that I know of anyway. Regardless, I should have known better. And when DiMarco called me out on my insensitive remark, I responded inappropriately. DiMarco had every right to react as he did, and I have no hard feelings toward him for doing so. He was simply performing his job as an administrator of this forum.

So again, my apologies to all, and especially, to Sasha and DiMarco. I hope we can all just put this unfortunate episode behind us and get back to enjoying "The Good Vibe Zone".

Sincerely,
Kimgee

@kimgee, awesome post right there. Respect.
 
  • Like
Reactions: RIP
Kimgee I hear you about forgetting that we are quite a diverse geographical group. I put my foot in my mouth today in a chat group I have for a game I play. I meant to be silly, and the other guy thought i was really upset, and started apologizing to me! All because we come from different cultures. He is my good friend, and I was begging him to not feel bad, and just forget the whole thing! A very bad example was when I told that group I lost my sister. In America this means someone died. One of the guys said I hope she is found soon, and best of luck. Needless to say he was horrified to find out what I really meant. Without eye contact, without hearing the tone of voice, without knowing where someone is from, these things are going to happen. So we cannot be overly upset when these things happen. We are the universal good vibe zone! Much respect to you.

Paul
 
Thanks KimGee, that's really appreciated :)
 
I want to let you guys know that when I stepped down as an admin, it wasn't over this situation or kimgee's remarks. The situation was ugly and I was not responding in the most tactful way.
As I don't have any secrets to anyone I do my discussions out in the open, even if they are arguments. This went wrong and maybe I should have considered other people do like to keep the more hefty on-goings private. I have learned from this situation so I am thankful. We keep learning if we stay smart and open about things and remain able to look at our own moves from a birds eye view.

I hold no grudge against kimgee or anyone else whatsoever.

The reason I did step down as an admin is in late november I got hit by a burnout. Work related and family related mostly - but a burnout is a burnout. To alleviate my stress I stopped working and I stopped being admin back then. I was a mess. Since Florin by that time had recovered from his burnout situation (my gawd we are an awful bunch aren't we?) he then took over the admin job again so nothing was ever in danger and there always was a forum staff.

I want to thank everyone for sticking with our beloved little forum during the hard times we faced after Warwick ditched us. Recently we've been getting more new members which is great. Let's keep the universal good vibe zone alive until the end of internet.

Thanks!
 
Back
Top